May 19, 2026
Is a Reverse Mortgage Right for You? A reverse mortgage is one of those financial products that polarises people. Some see it as a lifeline — a way to access the equity they've spent decades building, without having to sell the home they love. Others are wary — worried about what it means for their estate, their children's inheritance, or whether they're making a decision they'll regret. The truth, as with most financial products, sits somewhere in the middle. A reverse mortgage is neither the answer to everything nor something to be feared. It's a tool — and like any tool, whether it's right for you depends entirely on your situation. Here's a framework for thinking it through honestly. What a Reverse Mortgage Actually Is A reverse mortgage allows homeowners aged 60 and over to borrow against the equity in their home, without making regular repayments. The loan — plus compounding interest — is repaid when you sell the home, move into permanent care, or pass away. It's important to be clear: this is still a loan. It's not free money. But for many New Zealanders who have watched their property values grow significantly over the past two decades, it's a way to access real value that's sitting in their home — value they've built up over a lifetime. You remain the registered owner of the property throughout. You can continue living in your home for as long as you choose. And under the no negative equity guarantee, you'll never owe more than the value of the home when it's sold. The amount you can borrow depends on your age and the value of your property — generally between 20% at age 60 and 45% at age 85. Protecting What You Want to Leave Behind One concern people often raise is what a reverse mortgage means for their estate and their children's inheritance. The good news is that lenders offer an equity protection option — you can choose to protect a set percentage of your home's value (up to 50%) so that portion is guaranteed to remain for your estate regardless of how the loan grows over time. This reduces the maximum amount you can borrow, but it gives you certainty about what will be left. For people who want to access equity while still leaving something meaningful behind, this is worth understanding properly before making any decisions. When It Can Make a Lot of Sense A reverse mortgage tends to work well for people in specific situations. You're asset rich but cash poor. Your home is worth $800,000 or more. Your savings are modest. New Zealand Superannuation covers the basics, but there's no buffer for unexpected costs, healthcare, or simply enjoying your retirement. A reverse mortgage gives you access to capital without requiring you to sell. You want to stay in your home. Downsizing is the most common alternative — but it's not always the right one. Moving is expensive, emotionally difficult, and the proceeds aren't always as substantial as people expect once agent fees, legal costs, and the purchase of a new property are factored in. If staying in your home matters to you, a reverse mortgage preserves that option. You have a specific, defined need for funds. Home modifications for accessibility, healthcare costs, helping a child with a deposit, clearing a remaining debt. A reverse mortgage used for a specific purpose tends to work more cleanly and leaves the compound interest effect more manageable and predictable. Your family is supportive and informed. The best reverse mortgage decisions are made with family in the room. When everyone understands what's happening, why it makes sense, and what the numbers look like over time — there are no surprises and no resentment later. When You Should Think Carefully A reverse mortgage isn't right for everyone. Here are the situations that warrant careful consideration. You want to leave the home to your children . A reverse mortgage reduces the equity in your home over time as interest compounds. If leaving the family home intact as an inheritance is a priority, you need to model what the loan balance looks like at different points — and consider whether the equity protection option is the right fit. You're considering it to fund ongoing lifestyle expenses over many years. Using a reverse mortgage to supplement income over a long period means the loan balance grows steadily. Over an extended timeframe this can significantly erode equity. There may be better options worth exploring first. Financial vulnerability and abuse. Accessing a significant sum of money later in life can bring unexpected risks. Some people aren't used to managing large amounts and can be targeted by scams. Others find themselves subject to pressure from family members — whether intentional or not — to share or hand over funds. Elder financial abuse is more common than most people realise, and it doesn't always come from strangers. Having a trusted, independent adviser involved in the process is one of the best ways to protect yourself and make sure the decision — and the money — stays yours. Gifting implications. If you're planning to gift some of the funds to family members, be aware there can be implications for residential care means testing and relationship property. Getting the right advice before any gifting takes place protects everyone involved. The Questions Worth Asking Before making any decision, work through these honestly: What do I need the money for, and is this the best way to access it? What does the loan balance look like in 5, 10, and 15 years — and am I comfortable with that? Do I want to protect a portion of my home's value for my estate? Have I talked this through with my family? Have I considered all the alternatives — downsizing, other lending, adjusting my budget? There are no right or wrong answers. But working through these questions with someone who will give you a straight answer — rather than just process your application — is how you make a decision you'll feel good about. Protection Partners Limited is a referral service. We connect New Zealanders with trusted lending and advisory partners. We do not provide financial advice. Independent financial and legal advice is recommended before making any significant financial decision.